We all know the saying, “Hurt people hurt people.” And I believe this is what motivated Harry to go forward into this inexcusable and disgusting situation, even if he wasn’t entirely sure of Olivia’s betrayal of Jason. How tragic. As for Olivia, well, it turns out she’s just as manipulative and pathetic as we all suspected her to be. Harry, you idiot.
Read more of my thoughts on Olivia Wilde here:
Jason Sudeikis has finally broken his silence on the Holivia situation, and things aren’t looking good for the “homewrecking” couple that sent everyone hurling (🤢🤮) with their recent try-hard yacht show.
Jason has now confirmed he and Olivia did in fact split in November 2020, immediately once Harry started filming for Don’t Worry Darling. And remember, long before filming begins there are months worth of meetings, rehearsals, table reads, fittings, etc. This matters because it shows the timelines of the two relationships are murky at best, and converge at worst, meaning she cheated on him with Harry.
Regardless of whether she cheated or not, this new information does in fact prove she ditched her finance of 7 years and the father of her 2 small children for a singer who is 10 years younger than her, wears dresses and penis necklaces, and who hasn’t been in a stable relationship for longer than a few months at a time. How laughable and mid-life crisis of her.
Here’s what Jason had to say about the situation when speaking to GQ for their August 2021 issue. In this excerpt he is implying that he is still unsure of exactly why and when things ended with Olivia (meaning she was likely cheating on him with Harry; even if it was just emotionally) and he still doesn’t understand why things ended the way they did. Poor guy.
“He and Wilde, he said, no longer share the house. They split up, according to Sudeikis, “in November 2020.” The end of their relationship was chronicled in a painful, public way in the tabloids after photos of Wilde holding hands with Harry Styles surfaced in January, setting off a flurry of conflicting timelines and explanations. Sudeikis said that even he didn’t have total clarity about the end of the relationship just yet.
(This means when the handhold pictures came out, he was still unsure about why he and Olivia actually ended. Remember the pictures of her clinging to him and holding him in November and December? Pure manipulation. Trying to confuse him. That’s so fucked up. God she’s desperate.)
“I’ll have a better understanding of why in a year,” he said, “and an even better one in two, and an even greater one in five, and it’ll go from being, you know, a book of my life to becoming a chapter to a paragraph to a line to a word to a doodle.”
Right now he was just trying to figure out what he was supposed to take away, about himself, from what had happened. “That’s an experience that you either learn from or make excuses about,” he said. “You take some responsibility for it, hold yourself accountable for what you do, but then also endeavor to learn something beyond the obvious from it.”
My heart breaks for him so badly. He seems like a good man and a dutiful father, and he’s left wondering why this happened to him out of the blue, having no choice but to question his own self-worth and reevaluate everything that took place, all by himself because this desperate succubus blindsided him and didn’t communicate with him.
Don’t worry darling Jason, Olivia will deeply regret the day she ran off with Harry Styles. She has no idea what she’s gotten herself into. That young man is deeply damaged and carrying a level of emotional baggage she couldn’t even begin to fathom. And the sad thing is he doesn’t even want her for her. She’s deluded and having a good time feeling desired by someone young and super successful, but in truth she’s nothing more than an expendable tool and a distraction from the baggage he admitted he can’t unpack or get rid of. Wow these people are so fucked up. All the way around. (And that’s coming from someone who’s also fucked up myself.)
I am so beyond disappointed with Harry, and I have criticized him quite a lot in the last post when I suspected this was the case with Jason all along (like all of you did too.) I’m glad we were proven right. But I still have a soft spot in my heart for Harry because we know what he has been through with Zayn, and we saw the way he exposed himself with Fine Line, and we saw the way Zayn got Gigi pregnant immediately afterwards in what I deem to be a cowardly move.
I believe this overwhelming rejection, in addition to the baby, has resulted in Harry losing sight of himself, his self-worth, and his values. He doesn’t even care about his image right now and is allowing Olivia and her gross mid-life crisis bullshit to trample all over it, which is horrifying. She is NOT worth it. Not one bit. And he doesn’t even look ok, as much as he tried to be convincing with her in Italy. He looks dead inside, and those moments when he is unguarded and not trying to interact with her for the cameras demonstrated that the most. We all wanted Harry to move on and he did, it just sucks that this manipulative leech was there to gather him up.
Despite me being disgusted with his choice of partner and disappointed with him stepping out of his character and forcing PDA for the paps, I don’t blame him for what happened to Jason. I believe he was also lied to about the Jason situation by Olivia. Something about her reeked of desperation and underhandedness to me, and now we have it confirmed. And I think in pursuing Harry, she did everything she could to convince him she was single. He only knows what she tells him, and if she told him she and Jason were separated, then of course he’s going to take her at her word.
Meaning, it’s the equivalent of how one can’t necessarily blame the other woman in a cheating scandal, because she was likely lied to by the man as well. I believe that is the case with Harry. He is the other woman. We know Harry’s heart. We know he’s a good guy. And I believe his own heartache and wanting to “move on” kept him from asking the pertinent questions and being more cautious about trusting her in the beginning.
I hope he gets away from that mid-life crisis fast. He doesn’t need her stink on him. It’s better to be alone and miserable than to be a part of wrecking another home (with children) out of heartbreak. He and Olivia’s relationship is not built on anything wholesome. Much like Zigi, it is built on self-serving lies, whoring for PR, and involves a mentally tormented and closeted man. Both relationships are also being driven by shameless clout-chasing women in the pubic eye. Pathetic. Bye.
Get your shit together, Harold. You’re better than this.
Newsflash: We still don’t know if she cheated on Jason with Harry. That is still speculation and Jason did not confirm or deny that. Like I mentioned in the post above, at the very least we know she cheated on him emotionally, and Harry has nothing to do with that. What my issue has always been with Holivia was the fakery on Harry’s part, and her leaving her fiancé of 7 years (and the father of her children) for an employee who is also 10 years younger and who has never been in a stable relationship. I think it was reckless for her kids, which is something I said in my Q&A video over a month before the truth came out. And that’s because I sensed desperation in her, sort of like a mid-life crisis.
Turns out Olivia Wilde was actually married before to a filmmaker by the name of Tao Ruspoli, from 2003-2011, who she also left. This adds a whole new layer of ick for me and continues to validate the bad feelings I have about her intentions for Harry. God I hope he smartens up and gets the fuck away from this mess.